Educational Guides; Navigating Sex for Trans & Disabled Folk

  • ​How To Help Your Disabled Lover Pee

    I want you to imagine a scenario: You’re in bed with a really hot lover, and you are in the middle of some really hot sex. You know the kind I am talking about: everything is clicking, you two are totally jiving with each other, and it couldn’t be going any better. In the midst of all this passio...

  • How to Use Sex Toys to Cope With Gender Dysphoria

    Sex toys are pleasure tools that can be used for sexual exploration, unique masturbation experiences, and to compliment the sex you have with partners. Generally, their methods and sensations can’t be replicated by hand. This allows you to interact with your body and others’ bodies in unique ways...

  • Navigating Sex Toys & Disability

    Newsflash: people with various disabilities have and enjoy sex, too. People with disabilities can be sexy if they choose, people with disabilities deserve full, complex sex lives–just in the same way people with various disabilities deserve full and complex lives, full stop. Whether you're someon...

  • Packing 101

    Before we get into the hows and whys of packing, let’s define what packing is. In this context, packing refers to the practice of somebody who doesn’t have a penis wearing padding or an object in their clothing, in order to give the appearance of having a bulge. Some people use the terminology ‘s...

  • ​Providing Your Disabled Lover With Agency & Access During Sex

    We don’t talk about sex and disability enough at all in popular culture. One of the spaces I think is particularly lacking when it comes to our discussion, is guides for non-disabled partners to understand how to better assist their hot disabled lover. Maybe you picked up a hot wheelchair user on...

  • Why Dirty Talk that Centers Around My Disability is a Turn On, and How To Do This Correctly

    When we think of dirty talk in bed, we may come up with language like: cock, pussy, whore, slut, etc. Many of us have reclaimed these words, and transformed them into something positive for each of us, and when sexual partners use these terms in bed with us, it can amp up the sexiness and turn on...