A common misconception about sex toys is that they are only reserved for private, solo play. Furthermore, many believe a toy meant for someone with a particular set of genitals can only be used by that person and cannot be enjoyed by both. But much like how pleasing our partner (s) brings us pleasure even if it’s not something actively stimulating us personally, a sex toy brings arousal to all parties involved, even if it’s not meant ‘for you’.
There is a hesitance with many when it comes to incorporating toys meant for penises in partnered play. However, there is a plethora of sex toys for penises that are easily able to be brought into the bedroom for all to enjoy! My partner and I took this plunge together, bringing an array of different toys with his pleasure in mind into the bedroom to investigate. What we found was surprising to us both, and certainly unlocked a different level to our sexplorations.